As a parent, I've put a lot of pressure on myself to raise my children as good people, in His image with strong morals and values, grace and humility. I understand children learn from example and I've tried to be the best I can. But sometimes, it's all too easy to take things for granted all too often here in Canada. Our family is blessed to have not just the basic necessities covered, but so much more. So much in fact, that it's easy to lose track of just how lucky we truly are. We send our kids to school, buy them treats for their lunch, replace their toothbrushes when needed - all without a second thought.
But we should think twice more often than we do. Please don't get me wrong, I'm not saying I've walked through life just take take taking without giving back. I think I've done a fairly good job with giving in return. But have I done as good a job with instilling this value in my children? I tend to criticize my progress in teaching them graciousness when I hear the whines for new toys or pizza for dinner. So when I recently had the opportunity to help out with the “Fill-a-truck” fundraiser (led mostly by Melissa & AngeLissa), not only did I roll up my sleeves and get to work, but invited my daughter to get involved too. From planning to implementation, she was right there helping out and doing her part. She came with me and sat the in back of a small moving truck in the rain for four hours. She even made thank you cards to give folks who donated items to our event. It was so cold and miserable out that I began to feel a little sorry for her because let's face it, not even I was enjoying sitting in the rain too much. So when my mother called to check in, I gave my daughter an out. “You could go with Nanny if you like. You've done a great job and you've been very helpful.” I said with a smile. I figured sitting in less than desirable weather conditions for a few hours would make anyone (much less a child!) jump at the opportunity to get inside. “No, I want to stay with you Mommy. I want to help the kids in Haiti.” WOW... I felt my own heart about to burst with pride. It was that exact moment when I knew she got it. She understood just how important our event was to kids so far away. Whether we raised $1 or $100, today would prove a powerful day – an important day of learning for both of us. My daughter was absolutely learning graciousness and I learned I was in fact doing an alright job teaching her. And you know, it was easier than I thought. A seemingly small gesture can have tremendous impact. You see, it needn't be a big elaborate event to teach our kids to be grateful. It can be as simple as collecting unwanted clothing from others. She's already asking when we'll do it again. What types of activities have you used to teach grace? I'd love to hear your ideas and suggestions.
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Shauna QuinnNo stranger to taking the road less travelled, I must admit those not so great choices made me who I am and led me to where I am right now, which happens to be exactly where I am supposed to be. Archives
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